A Primer On Cloth Gags
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Abductus Interruptus
What to do if police mistake your abduction roleplay for the real thing. |
An Interrogation Scene
Read this with your partner, and discuss. If you participated in this scene, what activities would you have added? What sections of this scene would you not have done? |
Animated Knots
Short animations of how to tie certain knots. |
Autumn Tears
For those who have been abused within the confines of a BDSM relationship or in a BDSM community, or survivors of other abuse. |
Bay Area Women of Color BDSM Photo Project
Mission is to expand the aesthetic and cultural perception of the BDSM community by promoting artistically tasteful photographic images of Women of Color in BDSM. |
BDSM Safety at FrugalDomme.com
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BDSM/Fetish Kink Checklist
Negotiation form. |
BDSM? What? Why? How?
Intended as an introduction to BDSM, this site is written for newcomers to BDSM. It contains information about BDSM, as well as links, resources, books, scenario ideas, and so on. |
Better BDSM
Listings of informational resources. Safety, Activities, Directories. |
Bondage Forum & Message Board
Discussions, musings and dialogues about bondage. Hosted by Lorelei. |
Bondage Fun
Bondage primer by by Rob Jellinghaus. |
Bondage Lessons
Bondage workshops by Max, presented locally and at clubs and conventions. Seminars such as "Bondage for Sex", "Fundamentals of Rope Bondage", "Rope Bondage 201", "Basic Suspension Bondage", "When Someone You Know is Switchy", more. Based in Washington State. Email newsletter too. (Partner of Mistress Matisse.) |
Bondage Tutorials by MorTis
Bondage how-to's. Sections include History of Shibari, Rope Safety, Basic Techniques, Bondage Positions, Emergencies, Rope sizes And Lengths. And lots of other positions and ties. |
Bondage Tutorials
Link list of bondage how-to's and bondage techniques webpages. |
Bondage University
Bondage techniques, rope bondage tying tips, information, education, glossary of bondage terms, articles, and advice about restraint play. |
Breast Bondage Techniques
How-to discussion and recommendations. |
Caryl's BDSM and Fetish
Excellent site for new people exploring D/s and their fetishes. Articles about finding partners online, safety, links, personal ad resources, be sure to click the "caryl" link and read about her personal online experiences too.* |
Censorship: The X-Rated Hoax
Article. |
Cheap Bondage by Master Rick
Do-it-yourself inexpensive bondage projects. |
Checklist for BDSM Scene Preferences
5 pages long. |
D/s Dangers & Precautions: Bondage and Suspension
Notes about suspension safety and gear. |
Erotimania
Mistress Katt's human sexuality resource site. Articles, personal ads, e-cards, forums, stories. |
Extreme Kidnapping
Customized kidnappings. Short grab and drive around the neighborhood, or transport to a location for a several-hour scene. Based in Michigan. |
Farmica Dramatica
Fetish in popular culture. Fetish, BDSM, brasil. - |
FesselSpiele
German-language BDSM site.* |
Fetisch.ch - German BDSM and Bondage Community
German Speaking BDSM and Bondage Community |
FetishCon fun
One photographer's description of a night at FetishCon. :) |
First Amendment Ally: National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Legal help and advice for those being discriminated against due to alternative lifestyles or activities. Outreach, public awareness, more. |
Hair Bondage Tips
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Helios Project
Graphic bondage tutorials and discussion of bondage techniques; frank dialog and depictions of bondage, sadism, masochism, humiliation and other BDSM related sexual practices. Forum, pics. |
Help Links at ProDomination.com
Excellent list of helpful BDSM sites and articles. |
HiddenCastle - BDSM Scene Etiquette
This page contains a list of local clubs, but the first half of the page is sheer gold for anyone involved in BDSM or fetish. Advice on club and peergroup etiquette, etc. |
Homemade Fetish Gear
Contribute your ideas for homemade bondage and fetish gear, or read others' contributions.* |
House Of Dreaddst
Forums and more. A site geared on the learning and education of the BDSM/Ds/Ms/Fetish. Demos on wax, fireplay, cupping,kink dictionary, booklist, bdsm quizzes, gallery, online store, house poetry, forum, submissive journals, more. |
How to tie Rope Cuffs
Rope hobble cuffs (on a rope leash) - technique explained in photos by Alebeard. |
How-To Bondage Video/DVD
"Jay Wiseman Teaches Basic Rope Bondage" video $49.95. DVD now available too. |
How-To Bondage Video
Another place to buy Jay Wiseman's how-to presentation. |
Immediate Family, Inc.
A BDSM Safehouse/rescue project with resources throughout U.S., Canada and the U.K. |
Iron Rose Community
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Just Another Excuse to Censor
Article about studies of pornography "effects", etc. |
Kink Aware Professionals
Psychologists, counselors, psychiatrists, physicians who are not negatively judgemental of fetishism and BDSM. |
Kink-Friendly Licensed Therapist
Samuel Allen, MA, NCC, LPC is a licensed psychotherapist located in NC, with telephone counseling available everywhere. Specialist in transgender issues. Kink/leather-friendly. |
KnottyBoys.com
"As experienced professional riggers, we Two Knotty Boys (JD and Dan) can show you how to put fun, safety and artistry into the ages-old discipline of rope play. Through our San Francisco based, hands-on workshops, Two Knotty Boys will shape your skills in quickly tying restraints that are as beautiful as they are functional. Our goal is to demystify bondage and put the fun into it, all the while making it safer and much more aesthetically pleasing." Particularly fascinating overview of specific rope ties at http://www.knottyboys.com/Page11.htm |
Living Doll House
Virtual community for people who like to dress up to look like dolls or toys. Also for Living Statue fans. Links list. |
Lone Wolf's Den
Site geared toward learning and education of the BDSM lifestyle. BDSM articles, book list, polls, photo gallery of personal scene pics, BDSM faq, more. 1200+ links including BDSM groups, organizations. (This is not the same Lone Wolf as the guy of Lone Wolf's Strange Page.)* |
Lorelei's Self-Bondage Page
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Master David & lofty's Home Dungeon
See how this couple remodeled their basement into a dungeon. |
Midori: FetishDiva.com
BDSM and bondage instruction, seminars, gallery, about Midori, more. Author of "The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage". |
Mister Wolfe
Wolfe's blog. Top, Dom, polyamorous, bisexual, tattooed, porn-star... an individual of the Scene.* |
Negotiation Form for Bondage Play
Suggested negotiation form for bondage scenes. BondageUniversity.com. |
Partnership/Commitment Compatibility Test
I keep telling the models I meet, many of whom are in their 20s, that the belief "Love Conquers All" is not correct. Often these ladies get into love relationships and are stuck for years trying to make things work right. Love does not conquer all, and the first person you fall in love with is not necessarily the right person for you. Look at this test and think about it... |
Perverts Love Women
Essay by Brian Tarsis.* |
Pornography and Feminism
Article. |
Rhal's Furry MU*s Connector
List of furry MUCK and MUSH servers such as FurryMuck, FluffMuck, Furscape etc. |
Rope Fashions
Rope techniques, tying how-to's, tips. Features: breast harness, rope bit-gag (2 types), hair bondage, single-limb tie (2 types), braided crotchrope, vibrating crotchrope, more.* |
Rope Tutorials at DS-arts.com
Use the menu on the left to look at various step-by-step instructions for oriental techniques in tying wrists, chest, crotch etc. |
RopeRigger.com
Online resource dedicated to the San Francisco Bay Area rope bondage scene. "Whether you’re new to the scene, a rope bondage enthusiast, a seasoned rope rigger, a host of rope bondage workshops or a web producer looking for a place to post jobs… RopeRigger.com is the online resource for you." Info about: rope bondage friendly events, rope bondage related workshops, rope bondage discussion groups, rope bondage practice groups, more.* |
Sartan's Working With Leather
Comprehensive BDSM leatherworking resource. |
Scenarios of Bondage Sex Play
At sextoys411.com. |
Sexual Bondage - Wikipedia article
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Shibari and Bondage How-To Links
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SM Precautions
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Sound Bites for the SM/Leather/Fetish Community
When representing BDSM or fetishes to the media, "out of a 1/2 hour long interview, you will be on the air for about 10 seconds, which is usually one or two of your sound bites. Or you get one quote in an article. So don't ad lib." Here are the messages that work best to explain alternative sexual practices to the general public. |
ST BDSM Ezine
Feed your kink! E-Zine for those interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. Accurate, free and erotic. Learn about BDSM practices, sexuality, health, safety, erotica, reviews, poetry, humor, photography, art.* |
Submissive BDSM Play Partner Checklist
By Tammad. |
Submissive Women Speak
Reality-based information and advice for submissive women and the people who love them.* |
Superheroines in Bondage Forum
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Tammad: Gentleman Barbarian (and rope lover!)
A good selection of essays on BDSM by this engaging man. Includes his how-to page and negotiation list.* |
The Did-tionary
Glossary of damsel terminology. |
The Dominant's View
A free BDSM eZine for today’s dominant information, education and entertainment. Articles, photography, reviews, humor, erotica, how to’s, and more.* |
The Home HandyMan's Bondage Dungeon
Do-it-yourself equipment. |
The Pillow Book Online
"Words, dreams and images of a cyber geisha." Leila Raven, aka Mistress Katt, keeps this online journal of her thoughts and experiences in ageplay and related BDSM/fetish play. Aby blog. |
Toward a Lasting Romantic Relationship
Essay with many points that are particularly important for fetishists to consider. |
TwiddlyBits' Sex Blog
It also has a lot of "bondage blog" in it. |
Will Your Safety Harness Kill You?
Issues of chest-area suspension harnesses. Article may be of interest to those who do bondage suspension. |
Wings of Fire Survivors
Information, educational and resource center for abuse survivors and secondary survivors in the BDSM Lifestyle. |
XXXExpose Interview
A strange psuedo-interview of two producers talking to each other about their documentary. The resulting site is gone but this interview survives. Allegations of brainwashing techniques and cult lifestyle at Insex.com's studios. Unusual reading up to extreme interpretations. |
